How do I give better Oral sex? Tips ladies? My girlfriend and I just did a bit of oral the other day, I have a little bit of experience with oral sex already, but I was wondering how to better myself and if the ladies on yahoo could tell me what they like their partners to do? What turns you on/off? what feels the best, what to stay away from?
Any tips would be appreciated and like I said the ladies are encouraged to answer because they know what they want better than I do. thanks |
Basically, there's almost like these "sweeter" (tasting) spot atop the clitoris. usually it's up top, sometimes in encased in the labia. pretty much...lick the crap out of it....
Sucking on the clit works (depends on the woman), and "twirlyes" (swirling your tongue around the top of the clitrous and top of the lips of the vagina. |
What are some oral sex tips? Tonight is my first time giving head to a guy I really like, I have never done this before, and I'm super nervous/excited. What are some great tips, things that will drive him wild, instructions? What things will turn him on any suggestions would be great! Thanks! |
DO NOT go to fast straight away.
Some girls seem to think 'fast is better' which is rubbish.
Start off slow. It is all about building up to it. So don't immediately shove your head down there and put your mouth over it. |
Can someone give me tips on oral sex? I gave my gf oral sex for the first time yesterday and it was also her first time. It did it for like 40 minutes straight(literally) and she still didn't orgasm. I also massaged her g-spot with my finger. I need some tips please. |
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I want to be able to give a guy really good...oral sex tips please!? i want to know how much pressure how fast how long and what if i cant make it all the way down his penis with my lips what do i do to make up for that? how much tounge should i use where is a spot on the penis or some spot i could hit that would make him go wild? help please |
My gf uses her tongue arounf the gland and above my foreskin and it feels awesome. Work it slow at first while u feel his balls with ur hand. Don;t be afraid to ask him to give u directions. he will love u for it. When he getskinda wild take it deep into ur throat and let him *** down ur throat.
Good luck and enjoy! |
Can someone give me Oral sex tips? i'm 19 and my bf and i respect each others beliefs
and haven't had intercourse yet
so we talked about an alternative which is oral sex
we want to enjoy it as much as possible
so can you please give me advice on how to do it?
what does he need to do to me
and what i do to him
sorry for that akward question
thanks! |
I looked up something just for you so you can get an idea what to do
www.sexinfo101.com/sexualposition…
scroll down untill you see positions for blowjobs and oral sex on women.You can obviously tell by the pictures which is which...When you see something you like click on the picture to see a 3-D action model of the position.You and your man can practice these positions to give head to each other.Good luck and welcome to the world of sexual pleasure. |
Oral sex tips ? hey, anyone got tips on giving a guy oral sex? from basic things, technique, little suprises?? never given it before and well uno, advise is greatly appreciated!? anything at all, even things not to do. how deep throat to you expect to get? blah xx |
| go get the cool whip spray and spray it (as much as u spray it on ur ice cream n stuff) on his dick. trust me. i was bad @ bjs n i tried d@ n the cool whip blew my mind away. u won't notice u are doin' it that good. just make sure u don deep throat until u lick every bit of the cool whip off. your man will moan in a way he hasn't before. i hope this helped |
I always gag during oral sex...tips? Okay, I tried oral sex on my boyfriend for the first time a couple of nights ago. But I found that I have a really really weak gag reflex. So, when I would "go in", I would always start gagging and then, it happened. I threw up. He was surprised, and I felt so embarrassed as I helped clean it off. But he wants to try again. Can anybody give me any tips? Should I breathe a certain way or something? |
A good BJ is really a hand-job with your mouth playing and teasing the head.
The mouth is not really built to embrace like the other orifices. You have to curl your lips over your teeth, you have to hold your jaw open and you already know about the gag problem.
You really need to learn to give him a hand job and use some oral to help things along.
If you really want to learn how to take him all the way - there is the old banana trick.
Take a banana, wash it and put a condom on it. Then slowly work it into your mouth and down the back of your throat. Take your time. You will hit spots where you want to gag so you pull back, rest and try again.
You wont get it all the way the first time, but you are training yourself to not have the reflex reaction. Practice a few days and then you will be ready to try again with him.
Note: he must be a great guy for you to want to do this and you are a wonderful girlfriend for trying this. Respect.
THE SHOT GLASS TRAINING:
(I had to add this)
There is an old rule: you give head to get head.
If you practice with a banana, go buy a standard shot-glass from a store. Give it to him and tell him that he has to practice holding it to his lips and working his tongue to lick the bottom for 10 minutes at a time. This will give him training to pleasure you.
I'm not guyding.
Sex, like any part of your relationship, is a sharing. If you do for him, he should be willing to do for you. |
I need some advice and tips on how to make sex more interesting? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we feel like its the same thing all the time with sex. What are some ways to make things more exciting and interesting. We are up for anything. Tips on more and better fore play, any oral sex tips and suggestions. Anything. thanks for the help |
Get him to follow u up onto ir roof and tell him u hear something at night and when he comes u should b but naked than u start to have sex on the roof
In the pool is also fun
Or the woods
Or a school |
My boyfriend wont give me oral sex, tips? i have only had 2 sex partners. my first was an ex boyfriend. we fooled around a lot, we only had sex 3 times, then he broke up w/ me. now im with another guy, we've been together 10 months. my boyfriend and i have sex regularly and the sex itself is great, it just gets a little... boring. i give him oral ALL the time. AND I SWALLOW!!! its okay, i dont have a problem with it. he knows ive had oral done to me once from another partner (who also sucked at EVERYTHING) and i didnt really like it. but now ive become more experienced and i trust my boyfriend completely. we've done just about everything, but he wont go down on me. i've asked him why. first he said it was the hair.. i kept up a strict shaving regimen, now he says its the smell. i've douched, shaved, changed diets, even taken medicine in case it was an unknown infection. i cant even tell if its working, (although it did seem better after the medicine) considering i didnt even know it smelled bad in the first place. i just thought i smelled like me. is there any tips to get him to venture down there? im not even asking from an orgasm, i just want a little tease. any tips??? |
| ur not alone sista! im sort of having the same problem but not to that extent, because i cant really say my bf has refused to do it , its just that he doesnt voluntarily do it like i voluntarily suck the hell outtahim all the time. anyhow dont listen to the ppl who reccomend that u basically get even because thats not going to help any- it would only make you both uunhappy..if ur actually trying to resolve the issue then heres my advice: offer him ur creamy delights right after a shower and only if ur shaved completely smooth.as far as improving the taste goes, you can go for the tried and true pineapple juice and lots of water approach. AND something else that i just came up with all by myself the other day: take a coffee mug and warm up some water in the microwave, then take about two tablespoons of regular sugar and mix it in the warm water unitl it is completely dissolved. then use a gause,bounty towel, strong toilet paper or what have you, soak it up in the sugar water and wipe your cooch with it. this will leave a subtly sweet taste in your region and you wont get sticky because coochies are always a litl moist. as for convincing him to give the slurping another shot, id say "i want you to kiss me and lick me all over" make him start at your ankles and when he works his way up near your thighs arch ur back and do make sexy sounds that let him know hes near an area that really arouses u. if he doesnt get the hint and keeps going past dont react too much and make him start over and hint n guide him towards the correct area.i always find that my man is easy to fool this way. when hes nearing the spot that i want him to lick i exaggerate and i even claw at his back or grab his hair a litl. and when hes finally there i moan and mmm and uuhuhh.lol hey whtvr works!! GOOD LUCK |
Tips for oral sex, not quite sure what Im doing down there? Seeing a girl I really like on monday and pretty sure we're going to get a bit rowdy, but just wanted to see if anyone has some special tips? |
| every woman is different. but in general, go slow and don't use too much pressure in the beginning. I don't recommend just going after the clit it can be too much too soon. think about what you like when you touch yourself. use your fingers, lips, tongue to explore her. all of that area is sensitive and pleasureable to touch. don't worry so much. it is not a job. and she will let you know when she gets close to climax exactly what she needs you to do and how. |